The Uses Of Sex Toys

What are the uses of sex toys? Here are the three most common concerns that women have about the usage of sex toys.
Now, the answer to the first question, and there should not be any doubt on your mind, is because it’s fun! Think about it, the same reason that you have adult toys, is ultimate the same reason why you have sex in the first place, is it not? Sex should always be a fun act and therefore why not have a couple of adult toys to make it even more interesting. You would think that why have novlety toys? Is my sex life not interesting enough? Well my answer to that question is, you can never have too much excitement. Something that you should always remember is that adult toys are not always only for solo use (masturbation) but they are also very useful in the bedroom when it comes to using them with your partner. Novelty toys should be seen as a wonderful addition to your bedroom, almost as important as a mattress on your bed. This is because studies have shown that, 75% of all people that have a higher and more enjoyable sex life, are less like to be depressed, anxious, nervous, have high blood pressure, intimacy issues, well the list goes on and on. There are almost no side effects to having a happy healthy sex life, so what is stopping you.

Well, I have come across a couple of concerns, especially with women, when it comes to the subject of sex toys, but I am only going to be talking about three of them here. For women, vibrators are the most commonly used sex toy. This is because when compared with a dildo, the vibrator gives them a more natural or “human” feel. This is eh y vibrators are a must for any women with a healthy sex life. You might not think it but did you know that men buy as many vibrators as women? Why is this do you ask? This is because and the human mind has grown, men, although sometimes thought to be dense, have become wiser in the ways of the female orgasm. What I’m trying to say is that men have become more aware of a women needs and they know they understand the importance of a women needing to fully enjoy sex. This is not because they feel that they are inadequate but rather that with the aid of a vibrator in the bedroom it just helps to spice things up in a little way and make it more exciting for the women. Both you and your partner need to understand the sexual gratification that a healthy sex life can bring you.

Let me get back to the topic at hand, otherwise I am just going to ramble on and on. The topic was, what are the three most regular concerns that females have when it comes to the use of a sex aid toy.

Will have an adult sex aid effect my current sex life negatively?

I actually can’t believe how many times I have been asked this question. To put it simply, the answer is, big surprise, NO. There is absolutely no evidence anywhere that show that having a adult toy will negatively impact your current sexually experiences or current activity. If anything, it will only impact it positively. Think about it, Sex aids are there for the purpose for you to have a better sex life not a worse one. Yes you may think that, in the case of having a partner, it will affect it negatively but I can tell you that the problem does not lie with the thought of you having a novelty toy, it lies within your partner. What I’m trying to say is that you or your partner are scared that owning a sex toy will make them feel inadequate. Meaning that they are not good enough for you and you need that little bit extra? This is most certainly not the case. You need to be able to talk to your partner and reassure them that, that is not what the sex toy is there for. It is there to make it pleasurable for you and for the. Remember, it is not only women that buy vibrators and it is not only women that use them. Studies have shown that it is highly pleasurable for a man for, during intercourse, for the women to insert her vibrator into the man’s anus. This is not a “gay thing.” This is because the glands that a women have are in her G-spot are almost identically to a man. Do not be scared to experiment and be open minded.

The second question that I get asked very often is, can I get too used to having sex or using my sex toy that I start losing feeling or it becoming numb?
This is not always a very easy answer. The usage of a sex toy is there for you to get pleasure and for you to help yourself or partner orgasm. There are cases that some numbness or sensitivity occur but this is not a long term effect. It is more and indication that you should slow down a little. And I am not talking about the frequency that you use the novel toy but the speed. Sometimes sensitivity will occur because you were using your toy to fast or rapidly and you might have slightly bruised the clitoris or the vaginal lips. This goes away after a while but defiantly does not last long. I have found that some women that only own one type of sex  aid will build up some kind of tolerance to it eventually; this is why I always suggest that you have at least two different types. Then every now and then you just mix it up a little by swapping the one with the other one. And I’m not only talking about when you need to recharge them, just kidding. Try not to fall into a habit but rather keep things fresh and exciting.

Then the last question and by far the most important, How do I introduce sex toys into the bedroom without upsetting my partner?

When it comes it sex toys and your partners, it can sometimes be very difficult to introduce adult novelty toys into the bedroom. Especially if it is a long term relationship that has been going on for quite a while. It is so difficult because of the fact that you think that your partner will feel insuperiour and will more often than none start developing self-doubt. This is not so much the case. Most men love to use sex-toys and to even just watch there partners using them. For some men it is a major turn on. But the answer to the question is honesty. Just sit your partner down and discuss it.  Why you want to use them and what you wish to accomplish. Try to involve them when you go and buy the sex gadgets. Just be open and honest and talk about it. You will find that your partner will be more willing than you might think. Try to make them understand that it would be a way for the two of you to become more closer and intimate with each other.

At the end of the day, sex needs to be a fun act between you and your partner and you or buy yourself even.